If you've recently moved to a new city or can’t afford to live alone, you’re likely in the market for a roommate. A tight renters market has forced renting costs through the roof, meaning living alone isn't economical anymore. So where do you start on your roommate search? And how do you ensure your new roommate won’t compromise your security? Keep these five tips in mind as you search for your new roommate.
1. Interview roommate candidates.
The first step to finding a roommate is to interview potential candidates. You’ll want to meet each one in person. Never, under any circumstances, offer a contract over the phone without first meeting in person. Telephone personalities are often much different than the ones we share in person. When you conduct your interview, make sure to have a friend or family member with you. Having another person with you can help keep you safe, while also offering another point of view.
2. Don’t give away too many details.
If you’re placing an ad for a roommate, try not to give away too many details. You don’t want your ad to be too vague, but giving away details, like your full name or your gender, can compromise your security.
Items to avoid in an ad include your full name, gender, your personal email address (use a new, temporary one), location during specific times, and full property address. Instead of including specifics, make your ad fun and light-hearted. Your creativity will attract potential roommates and positive responses. Once you meet in person, you can give more detailed answers.
3. Ask friends or family for suggestions.
A safer way to search for a new roommate is to ask friends or family if they know someone looking for a roommate. Asking those you trust if they know of someone looking for a roommate will help you narrow down your search. Your friends and family know you best; they are the most likely to also know someone who will be compatible with you. You may also try bulletin boards at local universities, a bookstore, or your church. These are places where you’ll have a better chance of finding a trustworthy, reliable roommate.
4. Be upfront with roommate candidates.
If there are specific safety rules you have in mind, be upfront during the interview process. You’ll want to find out what you have in common, but your differences are also important. Make an effort to know each other’s backgrounds and history.
Some items to mention during the interview process would be if you'll be sharing a room or not, rules on locking doors and hosting guests, sharing passwords, and the comfort with usage of drugs or alcohol.
5. Trust your instincts.
Remember, trust your instincts. If any red flag goes off about any of your potential candidates, even if you can’t quite pinpoint what is wrong, don’t make an offer. Your instincts often prove to be the most valuable tool. Use them; they are there for your survival.
Finding a roommate isn't an easy task, but you can do it safely and responsibility if you follow a few simple steps. Use caution, mixed with some enthusiasm, and you’ll have a good roommate in no time. For more information on staying safe in the home, check out this helpful list of safety and security websites.
