Life sometimes hits you with the unexpected, and you may have to make impulsive decisions that will affect the entire family. Financial setbacks and lifestyle changes are just a few main reasons why people suddenly move – and more specifically, having to downsize homes from a house to an apartment. When children are involved, adjusting from a 2,500 square-foot home to a 700 square-foot apartment can be difficult. Not only are you having to give up space you’ve been accustomed to, you’re also downsizing personal possessions to accommodate this new change.
The kids might not understand why it’s necessary to move. And depending on the age, you might not even need to explain. Though, it’s probable that they may put up a little fight at first because of the fear of the unknown. Talking to children about the positive side of moving may help them come around and act genuinely excited about their new space.
Moving from a single-family home to a small apartment will be tough for everyone; it’s an adjustment period for all. Here are some tips on how to downsize with kids, so you can have the best moving experience possible. Best of luck!
Declutter the Home Before Packing
By decluttering your home first, you can save a lot of money when it comes to purchasing moving materials. Start in the kids’ rooms and work your way around each area of the house. Children will likely have a harder time saying goodbye to some of their older, worn-out toys that they’ve grown up with – just be patient with them during this process. Make it worthwhile and donate their stuff to a children’s shelter or hospital. It might just brighten someone else’s day!
As for everything else, create a list of furniture pieces and possessions that will be going with your family to the apartment. Feeling overwhelmed by the process? Try devoting about a half hour a day to decluttering until every room has been checked off.
Search for an Apartment with Family in Mind
When it comes down to looking for a home, there are tons of things a parent must consider to ensure the comfort and quality of life their family is used to is met. Ask yourself what it is that your family needs right now, at this moment. Write down your thoughts into a non-negotiable list, and make sure it’s in front of you as you search Apartments.com for your future home.
Families with very young kids probably need an apartment community with kid-friendly amenities, and maybe one that’s near a park. Older children may not need a playground on-site, but would enjoy a multi-sport court where they can play with friends as well as their own bedrooms.
A highly acclaimed school district could mean the world of difference in your child’s education. Be sure to research schools and their ratings in the areas you’re considering moving to.
Families spend a lot of time in the kitchen, and kitchens in apartments tend to be small, posing a challenge for families of 4+. During the search, keep your eyes peeled for rentals with a larger, more equipped kitchen that’s suitable for cooking and entertaining. A pantry is a must-have as well, since parents typically purchase more food than single people or couples.
Schedule Move-Out/In Day When the Kids Are Away
Your kids may claim they want to be there when the movers come, but it can be overwhelming for them to say the least, which can cause parents to stress out more. Instead, choose moving day on a day where your kids will be away for a few hours, like during school or playing at a friend’s house. After all is packed and moved, pick them up and give them a tour of the new house. Ask the kids how they want their room set up; it gives them a task they can focus on. A school day is a great time to schedule your move, but if that’s not an option, see if grandma and grandpa can babysit for a few hours.
Published November 27, 2016
