An older man with a young child on his shoulders.

With baby boomers at or reaching retirement age, many will reconsider where they live. Married couples with empty nests or singletons looking to regain their social lives may want to move to a retirement community. These communities allow older adults to live around others of the same interests and age – typically 55 years and over. 

But what happens if you and a partner want to move to an age-restricted retirement community but one of you is not the required age?

What if you have children you want to bring with you into 55-plus housing?

The answers to both questions rest in the community and state where you live. 

No Age Protection in Fair Housing Act

If you and your partner or roommate are not old enough to live in a specific retirement community, you may think it’s unfair. You may feel you’re being discriminated against. Usually, you aren’t. 

Under the Fair Housing Act of 1968, homebuyers and renters cannot be discriminated against because of their:

  • Race
  • Color
  • Gender
  • National Origin
  • Religion
  • Familial Status
  • Disability

However, age is not protected under the federal Fair Housing Act. Therefore, developers can set limits on who can buy or rent their properties based on how old they are.

States also can allow retirement communities to set a minimum age for residents. Most do not prevent communities from being for mature adults only because they understand the benefits of income- and age-based housing programs.

Exemptions from Housing for Older Persons Act

One law that could allow you to live in a 55+ community even if you are not that age is the Housing for Older Persons Act of 1995 (HOPA). This provides exemptions to family status nondiscrimination if a retirement community meets either of the following conditions:

  • All the residents are age 62 or older. 
  • At least 80 percent of the occupied units include one resident age 55 or older, and the community shows an intent to provide housing for those 55 and up.

Once the retirement community meets these requirements, it is free to create its own age restrictions, in compliance with state laws. These restrictions can be more or less strict than the HOPA requirements.

An older man and a child fishing off a dock.

Rules of Age-Restricted Communities

Most age-restricted communities have two rules. The first says that each household (or a certain percentage of the households) must have a resident age 55 or older.  

The second rule adds an age restriction for the remaining members of the household, such as a spouse, partner, or child. These commonly set minimum ages at 40 for a spouse or partner or 18 for a child.  

The retirement community can also set guidelines for how long underage visitors (such as grandchildren) can stay with community residents. 

Younger Residents in Senior Housing

Even with all the restrictions placed on senior housing regarding age, you will still find some communities that allow younger residents.  

Some communities may get rid of age restrictions in 20 percent of the development while the rest is governed by the HOPA exemption. To be safe, many retirement communities allow younger households in a smaller amount of units, such as 15 percent of the development. 

What about children? 

It is rare to find a retirement community that allows young children to live there full-time. However, according to their age restrictions, adult children 18 years or older may be allowed, as long as one of the other adults occupying the unit is 55 years or older. 

Find a 55+ Community Near You

You’ll find age-restricted 55+ and 62+ communities in cities across the United States on After55.com. Just look for the 55+ Communities under Senior Housing Options. The following cities are some of the most popular for 55+ communities on After55.com

This article was written by Mary Beth Adomaitis, a freelance writer and journalist for more than 25 years. Since 2015, Mary Beth has focused on the elderly living in the 21st century in her blog, Unwrinkled Hearts, and through a variety of articles for several senior living websites. 

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